We are talking about maybe getting a new, larger vehicle.  It’s difficult fitting all three kids in the back, and I’d really like to be able to pick up a fourth kid.  Basically, I’d like at least 5 passenger seating.  The law says kids shouldn’t ride in the front seat until all other seats are full.  So, in theory, if we needed to pick up one extra kid in a pinch, we can seat Isla in the front seat with a booster.  Which is good to know, but not a good solution for regular car pooling.

I consider AWD a hard requirement, as I drive over a small mountain to drive the kids to and from school every day.  Also, we go skiing occasionally and live on a very steep hill ourselves.  AWD gives me peace of mind, and I’m definitely willing to pay for it.

More earth-friendly would also be attractive.  We currently have a Subaru Outback (26 / 33 mpg), and an old Ford Focus (23 / 29 mpg).  It’s interesting to me that our Outback, which is a much larger vehicle, is so much more fuel efficient than the Focus.  I guess that’s the outcome of Obama’s fuel standards, mostly, and time to technology development.  I felt pretty good about buying the Outback for this reason, even though it’s not a Hybrid.

Minivans and 3-row SUVs are harder.  When you start looking at AWD, things get pricey, fast.  Some options I looked at today:

1. Subaru Ascent, AWD 21/27 $36K 3RSUV
2. Chrysler Pacifica, AWD 17/25 $44K Van
3. Toyota Sienna AWD $43K 35/36 Van
4. Toyota Highlander AWD $44K 35/36 3RSUV

Chrysler does make a hybrid electric van, but they don’t offer it in AWD.  Perhaps that will change.  I can’t really see buying a car that only gets 17 mpg around town.  The Subaru Ascent isn’t much better.

The Toyota Sienna is the lowest rated van in its class by many.  They specifically knock it for having limited 3rd row space, even with the 2nd row seats all the way forward.  Since we’d have at least one person in the third row most of the time, that’s a pretty big deal.

We paid about 28K all in for our Outback, so the idea of paying more than 40K for a car definitely gives me sticker shock.  Even 36K for the Subaru sounds a lot more appealing than 43 / 44K for the two Toyota options.   Isla will be old enough to sit in the front seat in 3.5 years.  Maybe we just need to stick it out.

I guess the thing to do would be to test drive a few different options.  Any thoughts from van owners or 3 row SUV owners?  If you have one or the other, how did you decide which to get?

I read an interesting article in the WSJ about the outsize impact of clothes-buying on the environment.  Apparently, the average American purchases 54 articles of clothing a year.  54!  Some quotes:

Wardrobes take a much smaller share of the household purse than they used to. U.S. consumers spend just 3% of their disposable income on clothing, down from 10% in the 1960s, according to Bureau of Labor Statistics data. The downside is that readier access to inexpensive garments encourages shoppers to buy in greater quantities.

 Of the roughly 100 billion items of clothing produced each year, more than 50 billion are thrown away and subsequently burned or landfilled within 12 months of being made, according to a recent UBS report.

The fashion sector’s long supply chain cuts across multiple countries and sectors, including petrochemicals for fibre manufacturing, making it more complex for governments to rein in. That is despite the fact that the fashion industry contributes up to 10% of global carbon emissions. By comparison, commercial aviation generates just 2% to 3%, according to Citi analysts.

Reducing the amount of clothing sold globally will become an even bigger challenge as consumers in emerging countries develop a taste for fast fashion. In 2006, Chinese shoppers bought 14 items of apparel every year, but this number had more than doubled by 2019, according to UBS. Americans’ purchases also increased over the period, but not by as much—from 48 to 54 items a year.

So, how many articles of clothing did YOU purchase in the last year?  I bought probably more than usual because the year started with me 6 months out from pregnancy and giving birth, but also less, because, like most people, I wasn’t going out as much.  Since I track all my expenses for budgetary reasons, it wasn’t that hard to look this up.

• 5/11/21 – Gap shorts $36
• 4/21/21 – JCrew socks $10
• 2/5/21 – Gaiter $11
• 2/11/21 – Running shoes $143
• 1/10/21 – Running socks $15
• 1/7/21 – Socks $20
• 1/4/21 – Outdoor Voices Sports bra $26
• 12/30/20 – Lululemon tights $100
• 12/30/20 – Lulu sports bra $44
• 12/19/20 – Camisoles (4) $43
• 12/8/20 – Running shoes $121
• 12/4/20 – Amazon shirts (2) $44
• 12/1/20 – Eddie Bauer shirt $33
• 11/28/20 – Pink button shirt $18
• 10/15/20 – Sneakers $94
• 7/17/20 – Sandals $77
• 7/6/20 – JCrew shirt $26
• 7/3/20 – Boden shirt $41
• 5/31/20 Running shoes $132

So, I bought 23 articles of clothing if you count shoes, 18 if you don’t.  If you exclude socks as well, I’m down to 15.  Not bad, until you consider how unfashionably I dress.

How many garments did you buy last year?

If I had more money than I knew what to do with, I’d buy . . .

1.) Lots of Cafe Du Cycliste stuff.  Like these flowery bib shorts.

2.) 28″ Fast and Free tights from Lululemon

3.) Lots of Jellycat stuffies for all the babies and small children in my life

4.) A Garmin Edge 530 so I could get turn-by-turn directions while cycling

5.) A fancy mattress topper

6.) White button-fly shorts from JCrew

More JCrew linen T-shirts.  So comfortable!

All the cute kid and baby clothes from Tea Collection.  Now that S is almost 2, I can theoretically buy things in threes so all three of the kids can be matchy-matchy.  Given that L will likely put her foot down on this sooner rather than later, there’s clearly no time to waste.

This dress, or this one, from Anthro.  Not that I have anywhere to wear a dress.

I engaged in a little retail therapy a couple weeks ago and bought this cashmere cardigan in gray from Madewell.  It is probably the most I’ve spent on a sweater, but I have not taken it off since it arrived.  I’ve worn it every single day.  It’s so comfortable!  And looks kind of OK / cute on my round, pregnant shape.

I finally broke down and bought a third pair of maternity pants, in addition to a blue pair of maternity chinos and black maternity leggings.  With my previous pregnancies, I was working in the office and needed to look semi-professional, so I never hesitated to spend on maternity-wear.  This time, I’ve been working from home, so I’ve been dressing like a ragamuffin in all manner of workout clothes, my husband’s clothes, etc.  But my belly is breaking the system down.  You can only wear maternity leggings so many days in a row.  I even invested in a second bra that actually fits.

I miss clothes shopping.  I miss clothes wearing, being a normal size.

If I had a generous budget, I’d buy a few things.